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Is Anger, Defiance, or Anxiety Taking Over?

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​Practical, results-focused counseling and coaching for kids, teens, adult children, and the families who love them.

 

Does This Look Familiar? 

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  • Anger, silent frustration, or emotional outbursts

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  • Frequent worry or "what if" thinking that won't stop

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  • Meltdowns, quiet shutdowns, or persistent sadness

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  • Trouble focusing and following through

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  • Repetitive thoughts or fears that feel hard to control

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  • Family interactions leave everyone walking on eggshells

 

​If any of this sounds like your house right now, you're not alone — and there are practical ways through it.

 

Hi, I'm Dr. Jeff:

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Over more than 35 years, I have helped thousands of children, teens, adult children, and families make meaningful, positive changes.  My books, Psychology Today writing, professional trainings, and media appearances have reached people nationally and internationally.​ I have been featured on the Today Show, NPR, SiriusXM, ADDitude, and PESI.

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​​My Counseling and Coaching Focuses On:

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  • Practical tools to break out of cycles of anger, worry, and overthinking

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  • Clear strategies to reduce meltdowns, shutdowns, and constant "what if" loops​​

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  • Simple, effective ways to create real change at home—not just in sessions

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  • Support that goes beyond talking—focused, active, and results-oriented

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  • Most families begin noticing meaningful progress in 2 to 4 sessions​​​​

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In-person & Telehealth

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Now accepting new clients in Chester County and surrounding areas. Telehealth is also available in PSYPACT-participating states. 

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I'm happy to talk about what is going on with your child and family. ​​Call to explore whether this is a good fit with a brief 10 to

15-minute, collaborative call. Call or text: 610-804-5078,

or for email: drjeff4help@gmail.com

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Distinguished Psychologist Award​​​

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I was honored to receive the 2025 Distinguished Psychologist Award from PSCP: The Psychology Network for my work with children, families, and the field of psychology.

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Books For Parents & Kids

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I'm also the author of 10 Days to a Less Defiant Child & The Anxiety, Depression, & Anger Toolbox for Teens, among several other books, where I share practical strategies I use with families. To see all my published works, click here.

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In The Media 

  

  • (2026) Featured Guest on the Bite Your Tongue podcast discussing how parental overthinking impacts relationships with their adult children—and how to shift from worry to calmer, more connected parenting using the PACE model. Click here to listen.

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  • Past consultant to the Today Show, Court TV, multiple media outlets, and national and international radio programs.

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Teachings, Trainings, & Workshops  

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  • (2024) Anger Management Strategies That Work for Children and Teens. Webinar training for mental health professionals at PSCP: The Psychology Network

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  • (2023) Developed the Child & Anger Treatment Certification Program for PESI, training mental health professionals in practical, evidence-based interventions. ​​​

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Member of the Pennsylvania Psychology Association since 1992

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My practice is located at 430 Exton Commons, Exton, PA 19341 near the Exton Square Mall.

 

Email: drjeff4help@gmail.com

 

Phone: 610-804-5078

Copyright Jeffrey Bernstein 2026. All Rights Reserved
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